The view from a plane window always opens your eyes to just how small the problems that haunt you actually are. You come to the realization that these things shouldn't be taking up your energy, clogging your thoughts or affect your satisfaction with life.
I have found that over the past year a key to my happiness is when something is happening in my life that seems crazy new or unsettling, I take a step back and say "it's okay, take it for what it is because this isn't worth the stress." Life gets bumpy and we have times where we think "can I just have a break, please?" and it is okay to feel that way. We have all had these moments, but what matters is how you let those tough times shape and change you. Sometimes we all need to be told "it's okay" to help validate the decisions and choices we are making in life along with reassuring you that the events happening in your life are happening for a reason.Understand that: It's okay to be spontaneous. Being scared is natural when it comes to new things. It's okay to have tremendous goals that seem unrealistic to others. Not knowing exactly what you want to do in life at the age of 20, is okay. Having your life figured out and knowing exactly where you want to go, is okay. It's okay to step outside of your bubble and take a chance on something new. Taking things out of your life and adding more positive things to better yourself is more than okay. It's okay to walk away from things that are holding you back from living life to the fullest. Not having it all together all the time is perfectly okay, after all you are only human and you are allowed to fall apart every now and again. It's okay to grow apart from friends, realize the other ones you have and appreciate them. It's okay to have failed that one stats test, you'll pass the next one! Heartbreaks are never easy and you won't heal fast from losing loved ones or ending relationships, that's okay. It's okay to be in love and open yourself up again after a heartbreak. Don't close your future off because of your past. Taking the bad things and learning from them is vital. Life lessons show you the situations to invest your energy in and the ones that just aren't worth it. Learn when to say "it's okay" in life because this will allow you to be more humble, happier, driven, empathetic and understanding to other people who may/are going through similar things. We are all on different paths in life where we are attempting to reach goals of happiness, healthiness, and stability. Life is full of changes that test you. Whether good or bad, everything you go through is going to change you in some way. I'm here to help you see that if life seems like it's knocking you down repeatedly or you are bombarded with big decisions, exciting changes/resolutions, it is all going to be okay and work out in the end.
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